Are you Bi?

I wanted to get some new self photos up for you all, so I decided to drive out to the beach this morning. Unfortunately I didn’t get up as early as I wanted and sorta slacked on the whole getting out of the house quick thing. So by the time I made it out there, the beach I went to was sorta crowded. I ran out of time and had to head back instead of hitting up another beach.

So here I am at my laptop burning time till I can grab the part for my car and get that all taken care of. I want to address a question I have been asked a lot in the past week. Am I gay, bi, or straight. I am definitely bisexual. πŸ˜€ It says that I’m a sex hippy on my twitter, which I think tends to confuse people.

What I think makes sex great is the emotional and physical attraction and connection that you can make with an individual. I don’t think that this is limited between a man and woman. I believe that amazing sex is possible with a man and a woman. I know a couple that don’t label themselves as a gay relationship. Their relationship isn’t focused on the gender of the other person. The main focus of their relationship is the quality of the other person, regardless of the fact whether they are a man or a woman. They believe they would still have the same feelings and attraction if they were a straight couple.

Nobody likes to be labeled, or stereotyped. Why do you have to label your sexuality. A friend of mine when asked his orientation, just states “Sexual.” Like me, he could be considered bisexual, but he prefers men. I can’t see him turning down a threesome if the third member is a woman though ;D

So yes, if I have to be limited to 1 of 3, I am a bisexual man. I enjoy the company of gay and bisexual men, and bisexual and straight women. I don’t think gay women would be too interested in me. I don’t necessarily include straight men, not because I don’t like them, I just find it harder to connect with them. They’re not quite freak enough for me lol I think that really comes across in my scenes as well. If I do a scene with a straight guy, it doesn’t seem to come out as well as if I do a scene with a bi or gay man.

Digging it with an openly gay man

Not quite digging it with a guy claiming to be straight

Digging it with a woman

I know, doesn’t quite look like it lol That’s Crissy Moon, very sweet and passionate girl, and hot! Real easy to have fun around her and make a great scene πŸ˜€

Awesome people make for awesome sex πŸ˜€

On another note, I was suggested a great way to interact with all of you even more! I write this blog and post the photos of myself for all of you. I want you all to be a part of my porn experience, you’re my fans! So, to make this more personable for all of you I’m going to be starting a poll. This was suggested to me by Master_Sir_D on twitter, Pose Sammy’s Toole!

It’s either going to be once a month or every 2 weeks, that I’ll start a poll with various places and poses you would like to see me take photos of myself!

Send me ANY and ALL suggestions you have for a place or a pose you would like to see me do! Shower, pool, bedroom, living room, outside, inside, upside down, in the woods, on the beach, in the city, at a park, flexing, not flexing, hard dick, soft dick, jerking off, cum shot, gimme what you got! πŸ˜€

You can e mail me at samuelotoole@gmx.com

I look forward to hearing from you!

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11 Responses to Are you Bi?

  1. Allicide says:

    Thank you for not playing the bullshit Gay4Pay game that so many are playing. You could easily have said “I’m sexual” or “I’m straight but open” like so many in porn are doing right now. Why is it so hard for so many men in porn to admit to being bisexual? I find the fact that you admit that everything you do in camera is something you have or would do off camera to be refreshing. You are very masculine and could have pretended to be straight and I’m sure that Next Door would have preferred to promote you that way but I think you are sexier for being honest. I also praise you for admitting how much better scenes are when the guys enjoy gay sex- when are the studios going to realize that we can tell the difference. I dislike Next Door and thier Gay4pay homophobic promoting of straight men over gay/bisexual men so I’m glad that you – and James Jameson- are working for other companies. I’ll support you guys any place else but I’ll never give another dime to Next Door as long as Cody Cummings is on the payroll and they continue to be so anti-gay.

    • Hey πŸ˜€

      Wow! Quite the comment! lol First off I’m glad you like my work, and the fact that you took the time to read my blog!
      It’s a tough thing for some to accept what their sexuality is, and not what they portray. I think the fear that most men have in admitting to themselves and others is that they are bi sexual or gay, is that they will lose their masculinity. For most straight men and men struggling with their sexuality, when someone says gay, they think of a “Queen” or a “Flamer”. Most of the time, not the most masculine of gay men. They fear a stereotype, we can’t judge them for that, not everyone has the opportunities or ambition to discover who they are. This is my own understanding and belief as to why it’s so hard for men to accept that they are anything but straight.

      As for NextDoor Studios and Cody Cummings, I like them both. I may not jerk off to their material, but I have a very good relationship with the crew and staff at NextDoor Studios. What NDS provides is a niche in the porn industry, they cater to a certain fetish. Watching the “straight” guy succumb to his homosexual tendencies, or the “gay” guy somehow getting down with the totally straight jock. It’s like seeing a totally straight guy at the gym, and wanting to suck his cock down so bad, but you know it will never happen in real life, he’s just obviously too straight. But you can fantasize about it, and you can jerk off to the fantasy happening on NDS. I respect your view on the portrayal of the men in the films, but it’s what some people like to watch. The fact that NDS is still here and succesful is a testament to that fact.

      As for Cody Cummings, it’s pretty much the same thing. If his site wasn’t succesful, no intelligent business would keep him around. But he must be succesful, and fulfilling a niche in the straight/gay porn industry, which is why he’s still here. The man that is Cody Cummings(not the porn star) is a great guy, super nice and very personable. You’d like him more if you got to know him as a person, and not as a porn star.

      I hope I haven’t offended you with anything I just said, and I understand your frustration with it. I hope this helps to clear some of it up πŸ˜€

  2. Tball says:

    I’d hardly describe Next Door Studios as being anti-gay! But, whatever.

    Another interesting post, Samuel! (Um, and thank you for including the photos.) It was thanks to Next Door Hookups that I discovered your work. I’m gay, but I’ve always preferred well-produced straight or bisexual material to gay. Maybe because, as I know so many of the guys in the gay industry, it’s often difficult to watch two people I’m friends with have sex? Anyway, I find it refreshing that you’re so upfront and comfortable with your bisexuality. It’s been some time since Tommy D or Cody have had a really, really good bisexual scene posted. Hoping you’ll land a scene with either of them to help remedy that situation! =)

  3. TLondon says:

    I love your new blog, you definitely are the sexist guy in porn and i like what you said about sexuality, a big kiss kiss from your new english fan xxxx

  4. Ttotter says:

    I just wanted to say that I’m a huge fan! I also 100% back you in anything you decide to do with your career. Don’t let anyone tell you your not amazing because they must not see what I see. Keep up the good work and remember the only place there is to go now is UP!!!

  5. Zack says:

    Will you be sucking on camera soon? It’d be nice to see your oral skills in action.

  6. curve says:

    Your are my new favorite porn star! I consider my self gay but it’s really strange I find myself watching a lot of bi and straight porn. I love how open and honest you are, it’s very refreshing. I think it’s true that sexuality is so complex. I’ve never been with a women and only one guy in my life but I’m young and I think there is so much out there to explore. Not sure if I’ll ever get to the point of having sex with a women, but I totally enjoy watching with one. You should totally do a bi scene for Straight guys for gay guys, they have only ever done one and it was so hot. Best of luck in you long porn career I’m now a long and loyal fan!

    • You don’t have to have sex with the women, for you both to enjoy the other guy ;D It’s technically a bi sexual experience lol Don’t compromise your sexuality! Only do what you want to do and you’re comfortable doing!

  7. Adam says:

    I’m a huge fan. You are one hot piece of man!!!

    So what’s the deal with Chad Con???? Is he straight??? By watching the scene I thought you were the straight one and he the gay lol

    • Thank you! πŸ˜€ That’s definitely something you’d have to ask him, but when I met him he claimed to be straight. I was a little suprised at how he bottomed pretty good, maybe he’s a natural ;D

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